which of the following is worse?
a) a girl who occasionally hooks up with non-boyfriends, sometimes in close proximity to each other, in random and sometimes sketchy places, and when both parties are believed to be single. while there is no cheating involved, there have been some “connections” and “gray areas” in relation to past or recent relationships.
b) a girl who, with about the same frequency, hooks up with a very close friend who, the majority of these times, is in a relationship with someone else. however, that is usually the only sketchy thing about the situation. it should also be noted the only reason she knows the guy is because he was dating her best friend when they met 9 years ago; they have both severed ties with her many years ago. additionally, there are feelings involved: “love” but not “in love.”